Healing Attachments: Jon Dabach's $360 A Year Skool Room

Healing Attachments is a Skool community for women who feel emotionally alone in a marriage with a dismissive avoidant husband, led by Jon Dabach, whom the page styles Dr. Jon Dabach. It is billed annually at $360 per year, which the page presents as $30 per month, and it has 361 members, 2 admins and 354 posts. On 30 August 2026 it sits at rank 8 on the Skool Games Relationships leaderboard with $11,296.00 in monthly recurring revenue, and it is 78 days old.

Who is Jon Dabach?

Jon Dabach is a relationship counselor and coach, styled Dr. Jon Dabach on the community page. The doctorate is not specified anywhere on that page and we have not verified it. The about copy credits him with 14+ years helping couples rebuild connection, and his Skool bio reads "Relationship Coach with over 1M followers. Over 3,000 marriages saved." He is based in Los Angeles.

Jon Dabach

Relationship counselor and coach in Los Angeles, styled Dr. Jon Dabach by the community and credited on its about page with 14+ years helping couples rebuild connection. The doctorate, the follower count and the "3,000 marriages saved" line are all his own wording and none has been checked here. Worth noting for anyone weighing the offer: the search demand attached to his name leans heavily toward trust queries rather than topic queries.

The community launched on 13 June 2026 and reached global rank 583 within 78 days, which is the fastest climb in this batch and among the quickest we have recorded in any breakdown. A founder arriving with an existing audience is the obvious explanation, and the 11,466 visitors on the page are consistent with it.

What does Healing Attachments sell?

Clarity about a specific marriage dynamic, sold to one half of the couple. What follows is the about copy exactly as published. Five markers sit against the lines worth studying; hover one to see the work it is doing.

The revenue per member is above the sticker price

Divide $11,296.00 of monthly recurring revenue across 361 members and you get $31.29 per member, against a listed $30 per month. That is 104% of sticker, and the only room in this batch above 100%.

There is no visible upgrade tier on the page, so the most likely explanations are a small number of members on a different arrangement, or timing effects from a room that is 78 days old and still filling. Tier structure is not public, so this stays a ratio between two published figures and not a statement about anyone's membership. What it does make unlikely is a large free or lapsed cohort padding the roster, which is the usual reason a room reads well below its own sticker.

Why annual-only billing changes the whole offer

An annual-only price removes eleven cancellation decisions a year. It also front-loads the cash, which is how a community 78 days old can already be at global rank 583.

The trade is that a buyer paying $360 in one charge needs more reassurance than a buyer paying $30, and the page handles this in two contradictory ways at once. The button offers a free trial. The copy states "No refunds". Both are true, and the combination is worth understanding before copying it: you get to try it before you commit, and once you commit the money is gone.

The fourth row is the one most annual-only communities choose. Healing Attachments deliberately does not, and the free trial is what it uses instead.

Selling to one half of a two-person problem

Almost every offer in this category sells to the couple. This one sells to the wife, and it never suggests the husband will join, read anything or change on a schedule.

That is a commercially aggressive choice and an ethically careful one. It widens the market enormously, because the partner who wants help is rarely the partner who refuses to attend. It also means the promise has to be scoped to what she can do alone, which is exactly why the headline says "Start Understanding Your Marriage" and not "Fix Your Marriage". Compare it with Couple's Growth Skool, which prices per couple and gives the partner a free seat, and the difference in who is assumed to be willing is the entire distance between the two offers.

The formula you can copy

Sell understanding before you sell change. Understanding is deliverable by one person acting alone. Change is not, and a promise you cannot keep with only half the couple in the room is a refund request waiting to happen.

Write the reader's feelings and the other person's behaviours separately. Four adjectives for her, three verbs for him. She recognises herself in the first list and him in the second, and the qualification is finished in one sentence.

Answer the accusation she has already absorbed. "You are not needy. You are not crazy. You are not alone." Those three lines exist because someone has already told her the opposite, and the offer that contradicts that voice is the one she buys. See how other founders price annual commitments in how much Skool communities cost, how trials work on the platform in the Skool free trial explained, and where a room this young lands in the Skool Games leaderboard.

Frequently asked questions

What is Healing Attachments?

Healing Attachments is a Skool community for women in marriages with dismissive avoidant husbands, led by Jon Dabach, whom the page styles Dr. Jon Dabach. It lists weekly live coaching and Q&A, courses on attachment, communication and repair, and scripts and frameworks. The room shows 361 members and 2 admins, and its own page states it is educational and not therapy.

How much does Healing Attachments cost?

$360 per year, which the about page presents as $30 per month. Billing is annual, the join button offers a free trial, and the copy states that there are no refunds.

What are dismissive avoidant husband traits?

Descriptions in the attachment literature typically include withdrawing during conflict, avoiding emotionally difficult conversations, strong self-reliance, discomfort with a partner's needs, and appearing calm while disengaging. This is general information about a described attachment pattern, not a diagnosis, and attachment style is not a clinical condition. A licensed therapist is the right person to assess an individual relationship.

How do you deal with an emotionally avoidant spouse?

This community teaches one partner a set of skills rather than prescribing behaviour: understanding avoidant dynamics, communicating with more confidence, and rebuilding a sense of self independently of the marriage. Approaches vary between practitioners and none of it is advice about your particular relationship. Persistent distress in a marriage is a good reason to see a licensed therapist, who can assess a situation an article cannot.

Can you join Healing Attachments without your husband?

Yes, and that is the design. The offer is written to the wife, and the promise is understanding her marriage and rebuilding her own confidence rather than changing her husband's behaviour on a timetable.

How should I write an offer when only one person in a couple wants help?

Scope the promise to what the willing person can do alone. It multiplies the addressable market, and it keeps the offer honest, because you are no longer selling an outcome that depends on someone who has not bought anything.